You’re Not Alone… Now You Can Get 1-on-1 Help To Move On From The Agony Of Infidelity And Put The Nightmare Firmly Behind You
Specialist Counseling For Coping With And Surviving Infidelity… All From The Convenience, Comfort And Discretion Of Your Own Home
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“Hi Chris, Life is now treating both of us very well and I just hope that it stays that way.
It has now been 10 months, since this happened. Can I just say that both of you helped us a great deal. In particular the advice you gave me. I think that only a person who has been through what we have can understand. I was so depressed and thought that I couldnt go on. I remember you saying to me “R—–, dont look at what has happened in the past, look at what you have got now.” When I get a bit down, I always remember this. G—– also says that the advice Doug gave him helped him a great deal. Someone who had such a bad temper, never now gets angry or aggressive in any way. G—– is so calm now, it seems as though his temper has just gone and he can’t get angry anymore. G—– and me have not fallen out or even had an argument over the last 10 months – so we must be doing something right. He tells me he loves me about 100 times a day – he is a changed man. We spend so much quality time together and he regularly takes me out and is very romantic. We have both said that it will never go back to the way it was before and that it should get even better as each day goes by. Thank you so much for your help – to be honest I really did not think that I would ever get better emotionally, and I thought that my life was not worth living.” R & G – London, UK |
If you were diagnosed with cancer who would you rather go to for advice – a general practitioner or a practitioner who specialises in cancer and who has a track record of success? The answer is pretty obvious, isn’t it.
So if you need help with matters surrounding infidelity do you agree that you’ll get more benefit from counselors who specialise in infidelity related matters rather than from general relationship or marriage counselors?
When we found ourselves in the position you’re probably in right now we were fortunate to know many other relationship coaches who gave us personal counseling.
Whilst this undoubtedly helped us, we recognised that we would have liked even more to be able to speak to coaches/counselors who specialised in infidelity/adultery/cheating/affairs. And even more so with coaches who had real life experience of infidelity and had successfully kept their relationships or marriages together.
We wanted guidance from trained counselors who’d actually been where we were so could really understand what we were going through, and who’d managed to successfully rebuild their relationship or marriage.
So often we would listen to the help and guidance we were being given and say to ourselves ‘That’s all very well you saying that, but you’ve no idea how I’m feeling right now’ etc etc.
It’s exactly that specialised guidance that we wanted so much but were unable to find that we’re now offering to you.
How It Works
We offer you the convenience of receiving counseling from the comfort and discretion of your own home. All you need is a telephone or Skype connection. We have found that this works perfectly and has enabled us to successfully help couples all around the world. Modern day communications technology allows this to be done either free or at extremely low cost.
We record each session (with your prior approval) and send it to you in mp3 format immediately afterwards.
We will schedule an initial 45 minute ‘screening’ session with you, during which we can get to know you a bit, evaluate your situation, give you some initial help and make recommendations on the areas in which we consider you will benefit most from further counseling.
Often (but not always) this centres around the core issues of forgiveness, rebuilding the trust and communicating effectively.
We will also work with you to establish why the infidelity occurred and help you address and deal with the cause rather than just addressing the symptoms.
To get the most out of the initial session we recommend that you send us some background information in advance and, if you intend working through this together as a couple that we are able to speak with you both.
This initial screening session is done by Chris. At the end of it she will explain the various coaching options and packages that we can offer you, and recommend whatever she thinks will benefit you most. You will have the option of working with just Chris, or with the two of us together.
We recommend scheduling each session a week apart. We normally send you videos, mp3’s or exercises for you to watch, listen to or do at the end of each session, appropriate to what we’ve covered.
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“Although we have not gone through exactly the same scenario as Chris and Doug, we have found it very helpful to talk to people who have been in a similar position. It has also been of benefit because you have the ‘two sides’ as in most cases of this kind where one is the cheater and the other the one who has been cheated on, which obviously is the same for Chris and Doug.
Due to a young child and work commitments it would have been impossible to meet face to face regularly, so having the phone coaching has been brilliant as it means we can book a time which is convenient for us. We would recommend this service to anyone who may be going through or have gone through infidelity and the cost is very similar to ‘normal private counselling’. C & D – Kent, UK |
Our Qualifications
Doug and Chris Young are Professional Relationship coaches and certified NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programing) Practitioners.
Chris is also a Certified Hynotherapist and Inner Power Therapeutic Coach certified in the healing technique of Time Line Therapy.
We’re able to combine our qualifications as counselors with our real life experiences of confronting and overcoming some pretty daunting challenges in our own marriage.
So, unlike many other professional relationship coaches and counselors we really can walk the talk!
Fees
Initial 45 min. Screening Session £50 / US$75
60 min. Session with Chris £120 / US$190
60 min. Session with Doug and Chris £175 / US$280
Block of 6 x 60 min.Sessions with Chris £600 / US$960
Block of 6 x 60 min sessions with Doug and Chris (Our most popular package) £875 / USD1400
Note: The Initial Screening Session Fee is deducted when you book a block of 6 sessions
The Next Step
To schedule an Initial Screening Session please contact us by sending an email to coaching@askdougandchris.com or by using the Contact Form form at the bottom.
Would you please advise us:
1) the Country and State in which you live so that we can work out the time zone (or even better advise us of your time zone if you know it)
2) what days of the week and times are best for you
3) a contact telephone no.
4) whether you have Skype
5) whether you want counseling as a couple or on your own
There’s no need to send us any background information at this point (unless you feel that you want to).
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“It has helped tremendously because you guys can relate to exactly what we are going through or have been through. It helps a lot because you have been in our shoes and know all the different emotions and feelings each of us are having.
We both have benefitted a lot. Prior to our counseling, we were stuck talking in circles, getting into many arguments and really not getting anywhere. The phone counseling worked very well for us because we were able to talk to both of you and get both view points. Also, the phone counseling worked well for us because we both have such busy schedules. It has been very good value for the money and also for the convenience of being at our own home in the comfort of our bedroom. I would definitely recommend it to others. Has it met our expectations? Yes!” K & D – California, USA |
As you can see, it really is possible to survive infidelity and to end up with a much stronger relationship or marriage than you ever had before. Book your Initial Screening Session with us now.
