Can My Relationship Survive My Partner’s Affair?

If you answer these questions honestly about your partner or spouse it will give you a good indication whether your relationship or marriage can survive.

1. Are they prepared to own up to cheating on you as opposed to denying anything happened?

2. Are they prepared to admit that their affair was wrong?

3. Are they prepared to talk openly with you about their affair?

4. Have they agreed to end their affair and end all contact with the other person?

5. Do they have enough self control to mend their cheating ways?

6. Are they really sorry for the pain they have caused you?

7. Are they prepared to put themselves into your shoes and consider things from your perspective?

8. Are they showing a strong commitment to your marriage or relationship?

9. Are they prepared to do whatever it takes for your relationship to survive and work?

10. Are they willing to take a step back, look at the implications of their actions and consider whether they need to change?

11. Are they prepared to make those changes?

12. Are they prepared to get help either through research, books, courses or counselling?

The more yes answers the better chances your relationship has of surviving.

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